How Sexless Your Marriage is: take a quiz
A sexless marriage is not just about the absence of sex. It’s about the absence of intimacy and connection.
– Dr. Tammy Nelson, a relationship therapist.
According to a study by the American Association of Family Physicians, 15-20% of couples in the United States are in a sexless marriage.
A “sexless” marriage is often defined as one in which the couple has sex less than 10 times per year.
“A sexless marriage is like being in a desert, no matter how much you love the person, eventually you will die of thirst.” – Dr. Jane Greer, Relationship expert
It’s important to note that every couple and every marriage is different and what may be considered a “sexless” marriage for one couple may be perfectly normal for another. If you are concerned about the lack of intimacy in your marriage, it is important to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and work together to find a solution that works for both of you.
- How often do you and your partner engage in physical intimacy?
- a) Daily
- b) Weekly
- c) Monthly
- d) Rarely or never
2. How satisfied are you with the level of intimacy in your marriage?
- a) Very satisfied
- b) Somewhat satisfied
- c) Neutral
- d) Unsatisfied
3. Have you discussed your feelings about the lack of intimacy with your partner?
- a) Yes, and we have made progress
- b) Yes, but it has not led to any changes
- c) No, but I plan to
- d) No, and I do not plan to
4. Have you sought counseling or therapy to address the lack of intimacy in your marriage?
- a) Yes
- b) No, but I am open to it
- c) No, and I am not open to it
5. Do you feel that the lack of intimacy in your marriage is affecting other aspects of your relationship, such as emotional closeness or communication?
- a) Yes
- b) No
- c) Not sure
6. Are you considering separation or divorce because of the lack of intimacy in your marriage?
- a) Yes
- b) No
- c) Not sure
7. Do you feel that other factors, such as stress, health issues, or family responsibilities, are contributing to the lack of intimacy in your marriage?
- a) Yes
- b) No
- c) Not sure
8. Have you explored alternative forms of intimacy, such as emotional or intellectual intimacy?
- a) Yes
- b) No
- c) Not sure
9. Do you feel that your partner understands and respects your needs for intimacy?
- a) Yes
- b) No
- c) Not sure
10. How do you feel your partner would respond if you bring up the topic of lack of intimacy in the marriage?
- a) Positively
- b) Negative
- c) Not sure
11. Do you feel that your marriage is still emotionally fulfilling despite the lack of sexual intimacy?
- a) Yes
- b) No
- c) Not sure
How to Check the Results of the Sexless Marriage Quiz?
Sexless marriages can be a symptom of deeper issues, such as lack of communication, emotional distance, and unresolved conflicts.– Dr. Michael Broder, sex and relationship therapist
After completing the quiz, you can review your answers and evaluate your level of satisfaction with the intimacy in your marriage.
Answers to questions 1 and 2 can give you an idea of the frequency and level of physical intimacy in your marriage.
Questions 3 and 4 can help you determine if you and your partner have had open communication and sought professional help to address the lack of intimacy.
Questions 5 and 6 can help you evaluate the impact of the lack of intimacy on other aspects of your relationship and if it’s reaching a point of considering separation or divorce.
Questions 7-11 can give you an idea of other factors contributing to the lack of intimacy and what steps you can take to address it.
A sexless marriage is like being in a desert, no matter how much you love the person, eventually, you will die of thirst.
– Dr. Jane Greer, Relationship expert
It is important to note that this quiz is not a substitute for professional counseling or therapy, and if you are experiencing significant distress in your marriage, it is recommended that you seek professional help.
