Okay, Very often our divorce situation is tied to depression, stress, and loss.
Divorce – blowing everything to hell
Actually, divorce is really about destruction, but it’s only if you really built something serious during your marriage and there’s something to destroy.
But if you did it, my congratulations. Since you have done a great job as a creator. Family architect or relation designer, where do they teach for such specialties? Looks like that the Family building you and your ex-partner built together is morally and technically obsolete.
And remodeling is far more difficult to rebuild. So maybe simply explode all to hell. Therefore, divorce is when you set up dynamite and blow up this outdated structure, that no one loves and does not bring joy.
Of course, before the explosion, don’t forget to take your jewelry, papers, kids, and pets. You can grab a couple of pictures or a cup as a keepsake.
Then you need to gather the force to hire a fireworks man. Of course, you can prepare everything yourself and even make an easy explosion if you follow the instructions.
Press here, maybe here they will help you save plenty of nerves and money.
Professional Help during the divorce process
But if things get complicated, you need a professional for the MONEY. War costs money, your budget requires the weapons part.
How to stay on track and not sell a kidney, read here.
Well, I mean these specialists that will help you totally tear down the structure. To the very foundation.
But then you just have to watch the explosion, as we watch the shuttle going into space.
If it’s all ready, there’s nothing to do. Drink something, but it’s no time for champagne.
Starting a new life after divorce
You must understand that by destroying the building, sorry, by filing for divorce, you make room for something new, for someone new in your life.
Please, make this space for yourself.
You will have to build something cute on this wasteland so that all your pets, including children, have a roof.
And you, too, will be able to continue living and start your new building project, maybe something more modern and with a new design, maybe a simpler construction based on minimalism, but which will warm your heart and bring joy.
If you are going through a divorce now, STOP for a minute, exhale and think about the fact that you cannot minimize the divorce, you can only survive it.
But you can relieve your divorce stress
You must deal with stress, you must, or the stress will kill you before your divorce,
Just imagine how happy your ex will be and he will get everything.
So let’s kill the stress if we can’t kill the ex.
How to figure out you’re under stress during a divorce
- When you hear the word divorce, you feel muscular tension.
- You have a headache because you know how many documents you must gather.
- You understand that the words divorce touches you and your fingers get cold.
- Your head hurts after talking to a lawyer.
- You remember the Court schedule better than your cycle calendar
- You just want to drop everything and run away somewhere. Irresponsibly, I mean.
- From the thought that you need to negotiate something with your ex, your stomach starts to hurt
- After getting an email from your ex, your blood pressure increases and your pulse beats in your temples.
- Well, you suddenly start yelling at children.
- You start go to the wine shop not only on holidays.
- You are constantly drawn to sweets, dying of hunger and want a chocolate bar
So these are all signs that you’re nervous about your divorce.
But what to do with it? The most important thing is not to let yourself fall apart.
Your family has already broken down.
You can’t afford to be a wreck, because you’re all you have left and you’re now a fighter.
Then get your thoughts together and act, do something.
Take care and control your health, get tested. Watch your diet, STOP EAT JUNK. Exercise, running, walking – something.
You can also add a couple of herbs, vitamins&minerals to help your body manage stress during tough times.
If all other things fail, go to the doctor. Take care of yourself. There’s no other way.
You will be Okay